Make peace with your past.
Have you made a couple of mistakes both professionally and personally that continue to hound you or that nearly cost you your life’s savings, even your life?
Three ways to conquer and silence the beast:
- Forgive yourself for committing a faux pas, then move on. Start again!
- What’s the lesson that merits your undivided attention? Don’t lose it.
- Recreate something useful and creative from what tripped you in the past.
Eat, pray, love.
Your own fears can be a stumbling block to success and can cause even the most diligent to retrace their steps back to the starting line instead of push towards the finish line.
What’s wrong with enjoying the lasting benefits of a plateful of fruit with a slab of chocolate on the side? Why be scared of asking God for what you’ve been dreaming of for two or more decades? What’s the fear that’s preventing you from reciprocating the humble affections of a loved one?
Pay it forward.
I started out as a virtual worker knowing only the basics. With the help of family, friends and colleagues, I was able to understand the intricacies of balancing home life, motherhood and a virtual career. I was able to discover the joys of helping a business grow and help other people in the process.
There are many ways to pay your dues forward, but one main thing stands out the most: always reach out. It is not enough to just listen to what others say or don’t say. Most times, it is the unspoken word that strikes a deep chord and moves the person to action. So reach out and hold on to the person until he has steadied himself and can ably help someone else. Let the cycle continue.